I'm not sure what the level of harshness/looseness of moderation has to do with the perceived name-calling in this case.
And neither can I think of any effects that said perceived harsh moderation has had on you, if any. Perhaps you would remind me of some.

Your initial remark was indeed passive-aggressive and personal-grudge-induced, therefore that's exactly what I'm calling it. For someone so concerned with personal name-calling, your conduct seems oddly inconsistent with the principles you are so righteously presuming to espouse.

> as of late

If memory serves, you were around as early as two or three years ago. Don't tell me you had slept through all that drama.