Do you consider "giving a man what he wants" to be a feminist value? I admit that it wasn't the first thing that came to my mind.

Relationships are more nuanced than games, but you can still tell when you lose. For example, if the person in whom you have a romantic interest decides to enter into a relationship with someone else instead of you, you lose.

we don't need the MRA to address anyone else's
Regardless of how little you care about these issues, I think that the decision about what other people need or don't need is theirs to make.